December 15, 2014
EULOGY
If you knew Me in my prior life, You know that I had the burden and the honor of presenting the Eulogy at the funerals of many family members and friends. I do not know how that came to pass, but it is a position I have assumed.
My Brother-In-Law, Cass, passed away last Friday. If you recall, He had a sudden and unexpected stroke before Thanksgiving and his condition continued to decline. I will not be able to attend any memorial service as my current "Home" does not permit furloughs for memorial services of relatives. This was made crystal clear to me and others when we attended orientation at the beginning of our prison sentences.
I would like to say a few words about Cass even though I will not be able to do so in person. I met Cass when I was 13 or 14 years old. He hung out with my sister and her friends. I was the pest of a little brother that was always in the way. Despite my status as a pain in the rear, He managed to tolerate my presence and stood up for Me on several occasions when I got myself in trouble with some older guys. He was fit, strong and a good athlete. He joined the Navy after High School and was stationed in the Far East. My sister waited for him to return and they were married shortly thereafter.
Cass was no stranger to hard work. He moved up the corporate ladder and became the Global Director of sales for a specialized laboratory equipment manufacturer. I always enjoyed his stories regarding business travel to the Far East and Europe.
I shared a common love of motorcycles and cars with Cass, and we had many hours of "meaningful conversation" regarding those subjects. He raised, with my sister Gail, two bright, beautiful and responsible daughters. He was blessed to spend time with His Grandchildren who He loved with all of his heart.
My sister passed away over 7 years ago, and after that Cass lived a rather introverted life style. However, in the past year, He had greatly reduced his work schedule and was dating a lovely lady and was ready to truly enjoy life once again. Unfortunately, that was not God's plan for him. I do know He is in Heaven with my sister and his other family members. I also know his memory will be carried forward by his children and his grandchildren.
I have to thank him one last time for the support and care He offered to Me and my family during the crisis that landed me here. As they say, you find out who your true friends are when you are in trouble. Cass was a true friend, not only to Me but to many others. True friends are hard to find and more difficult to let go of.
Cass, many people will miss you here on earth, but I know you are in a much better place.
Ken Flaska
